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The Edge of Surrender
It began with a simple gesture. His fingers brushed the back of her neck, light and tentative, as if testing the waters. There was something deliberate about the touch—not just a casual brush, but an awareness of what it could stir. It wasn’t the touch itself; it was the way he touched her. Soft, but…
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It’s true! the majority of us men have no idea how to please a woman
The amount of insightful shared experiences I’ve heard from friends of both genders has lead me to believe that… Most men lack a desire for intimate connection. We become aroused fairly easy from physical touch alone. Thus the saying “We think with our other head” seems fitting and why viagra simply works! The female version…
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Maybe it’s just that people dont understand our dynamic.
Here’s the most misunderstood assumption of our POLY dynamic. We live and follow the traditional rules of a hierarchy system. We DONT. Our relationship to each other fulfills our desires in ways that satisfy our individual and collective needs. Mo is my Little, I am her Daddy. We have a relationship mostly based on aspects…
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Inside our Polyfidelity Triad
Moving into a deeper phase of our relationship I’ve considered a new concept to me; and I’d like to share this with you. It is quite possible that it is implemented by others who live Poly, so your insight is also very welcome. I’ve read some (Not a lot) Poly threads and there are many…
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Before I learned to be more wise about my decision; I was…
young and stupid . How naive I was 20 years ago, 5 years ago, just this morning. To assume that I have the answers when I haven’t even scratched the surface. As if when trying to prove that I’m better, I stumble once again. No doubt I look back; but I refuse to stop. And…
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Here’s what happened when I used sex as a coping mechanism.
I placed my entire value as a man in my capacity to perform in the bedroom. I undervalued any other of my abilities and dismissed them as unworthy of pursing any of them. I gave platform to toxic women who treated me like a piece of meat and nothing else; thus attracting only a specific…
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The Sea of Love
I woke up this morning with this Motown classic replaying again and again on my mind. I died in my dream today. I was crushed between a bus and a building that was being dragged by the ocean waves flooding the streets of the city. I couldn’t outrun it!, and then pitch black and complete…
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Trust Issues
“Trust Issues” It’s not about one person in my past; it’s about all of the ones I cut ties with; and their similar behaviors/traits. I really do make an effort to be as genuine as I can be when I write. Not for validation, attention or acceptance. Mostly for self reflection. On rare occasions I’ll…
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When I say I’m here for you?
It’ll be without a shred of doubt. If you call me at 2 a.m. asking me to come get you? Just send the location and I’ll be there asap. If you need to kick someone’s ass? Just let me know when and what to bring. If you need $10.00 and I only have $5.00. Give…
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You Fall Down! You Get Up! You keep going!
Almost a month ago we lost our beautiful cat “Detective Elliot”. Mittens took the biggest hit. “Elliot” was such a blessing to her health and to us all. Any of you who have owned and loved pets, know that their love is unconditional. Most of the time we don’t even deserve that type of love.…
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