Here’s the most misunderstood assumption of our POLY dynamic.
We live and follow the traditional rules of a hierarchy system.
We DONT.
Our relationship to each other fulfills our desires in ways that satisfy our individual and collective needs. Mo is my Little, I am her Daddy. We have a relationship mostly based on aspects of DDLG. I am her protector, her caregiver, she is my Little. She is strong willed, self-motivated, a positive thinker, she has a gorgeous old-soul that often (Not only intrigues me), but fills my heart with settling words of empowerment. She relies on me for strength, support and motivation, I rely on her for comfort in ways no other has ever given.
Mittens is our Kitten. We are her owners; she is our pet. She embraces the role as a pet to us and loves her unique dynamic with us. We’ve supported her unique needs. Our kitten came to us as a broken stray; one that has endured horrible abuses; one that required a great amount of loving, emotional and encouraging support, guidance and a responsible approach to teach her how to overcome that past hurtles. How to communicate with life and daily interactions.
We are her first and only experience to a life of genuine happiness. We are her first experience to genuine care. We actively challenge her to grow, we encourage her to be the better version of herself; the one that she always pushes to become. We motivate her when she struggles with the downs, we celebrate all her victories and comfort her sad moments. The anxiety attacks, the breakdowns, the nightmares. Supporting her and helping her understand her past traumas.
She fulfills our life with constant praise, love and reassurance. She spoils us collectively and individually in ways others could only dream of. She enjoys servitude as gratitude and she gifts us with it in abundance. She is there to celebrate our victories with a beautiful kindness and humbleness that feels blissful. She is wholesome to us, always supportive, always giving, always genuine. She is an active listener. Her desire for us, her touch is very intimate and she’s never shown us that she prefers one over the other. She makes us feel like the most wonderful people ever to exist! She makes us feel like we are delicious!
Their roles to each other are Beautiful and Sexy.
Mittens looks up to Mo in admiration and desire to grow through her wisdom. Never a desire to compete or expect. Always a desire to cater, to pamper the princess. Their intimate dynamic creates a unique level of intimacy where Mittens actively caters to Mo in an a seductive primal (Constantly Hungry for You) role that allows Mo to relinquish.
Mo embraces her littleness, her shyness, to become seduced, to surrender, to give, to allow her guard down as Mittens indulges hungry for every inch of what she can savor of our princess.
The reversed roles
Mo submits to the will and hunger of Mittens inside the bedroom, while Mo plays the more dominant guiding and encouraging role outside of it.
My roles to each of them are as unique as their individuality.
My Kitten is in constant learning and growing inside the bedroom too, the ways I need attention, the ways I want to be catered to. How I desire her touch. Training her where she doesn’t need directive, where she doesn’t need guidance. Polishing her ability to read my body language, how I need to flow. How I need her to transition during a scene.
In return; she brings out the primal nature in me, the aggressiveness, the brute animal, the lion, the bear. An inner challenge to push to demand, control, to take what’s mine, to dominate and push her to surrender to my will. That I can create a space for her to break down, to surrender to me. To share with me her inner fears.
In a contrasting role Mo is highly trained and is able to seduce me with her touch, her interactions, her sexy sense of security. She knows exactly what I need, how I need it and how to touch me. She knows how to push the right buttons and when’s the perfect time for it.
In return, I am challenged! I am pushed to the edge, I can drop freely and without reservations, I can subject myself to the inner peace and comfort she desires to give me when I have given her my everything. I can breakdown, I can cry, I can express my inner fears.
And the beauty of it all is the number of overlapping interactions we give each other! They create unique experiences.
I am not exclusively aggressive with Mittens. I am not exclusively breaking down with Mo. My Little isn’t always in charge, quite the contrary! But the ways in which I do these things are unique. They are not a copy and paste. They create unique experiences that challenge me to be a better man to them individually, collectively.
The way Mo brings out the primal nature in me creates a unique intimate exploration of deep emotions that make room for kink that almost manifests itself from thin air, from a single thought during an intense scene. She surrenders to me in ways that leave her immobile, broken from the outside in.
Our dynamic is forever evolving! Anyone that has made an effort to understand our roles to each other, anyone who has made room to understand our relationship knows that our roles aren’t based on a merit point system, but based on a love that just makes room for more growth, more support, more encouragement.
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