DDLG Lifestyle

I found this note dated back in 2017. Made some very small changes but I still stand by this 100% in who I am.

I’ve been fortunate to experience many beautiful subs that have challenged my boundaries, and I can say that I’ve pushed them to their limitations. Always with the intended heart that they learn more of themselves and in return, as my reward; I learn through them.

I’ve met subs that prefer engaging in scenes like degradation, sexual slave desires, humiliation, rape-play and other similar scenarios before they would ever share any deep rooted secrets. There’s nothing wrong with wanting to experience these things if they don’t affect them at a deeper level. There’s nothing wrong with wanting to experience the same things that once held them captive; now in a controlled environment where there’s safe words in place. But, do so when you can understand those traumas and how they’ve affected you. Recognize the strength in your scene and the level of control you have now acquired that was once taken

Have you taken the time to try to understand those emotions? To understand where your desires come from? What triggers them?

I enjoy exploring deep rooted emotions and provide room

to gain in each others trust. What monsters are under your bed? I’ll share my troubles. I’d like to help you fight them.

I want to hold, protect and embrace her when she breaks down and goes through the emotional roller coaster of her subdrop. I want to provide proper after care, positive encouragement and the right words that will make her understand, that despite feeling broken inside, she doesn’t have to carry that pain forever.

My peace comes from knowing I didn’t cross the line that needed to wait longer to develop in trust (even if it meant setting the sexual aspect of our relationship as a last priority). For her sake to trust slowly instead of allowing me to just become another man that’s taken more than he will ever give. The boundaries I’ve set for my heart will always take priority. To never take advantage of a submissive who hasn’t yet allowed me into her mind, even though she had been more than willing to allow me into her body.